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If a Shemale and a Female have sex does that make the female a lesbian? Or would she be bi or straight? And if a guy had sex with a shemale would that make him gay? | no
yes | Please tell me what a shemale is? What is a shemale and should I call her an inter-sexed dike man? I have a friend who says all lesbians are shemales who have penisis on the inside like spiritually. If someone could give me an answer so I could tell my friend that she is wrong and needs to stop putting shemale on forms that ask her sex because shs is a lesbian. | | not all lesbians think they have a penis. most accept their vag and like girls vag's and pleasuring in all different kinds of ways. a "shemale" (as u would like to call it), is a female or a male transitioning into the opposite sex. if she wants to be a man, so be it. but until she makes that transition, its ok to be called a guy, but not ok or legal to be putting it on forms | Bf watching shemale porn? i found out for the last 2 weeks, my bf of 9 months have been watching shemale porn. recently he asked me one time to do similar acts that he's seen on the porn on him (an*l and an*lingus). he doesn't watch straight porn, only lesbian and shemale porn. should i be worried, that he fantasizes over shemales while having sex with me or someday he might reach out and try to secrety hook up with shemales? should i confront him about this and if so how? i'm not sure if i should break up with him because of this since i'm not sure if he's just on a shemale porn phase. | | run from this sexual perv and keep all guyren away from this sexual predator | Can a Hijra transsexual be lesbian? Hijras of India are adored figures who are considered to be spiritual beings because of their "supernatural" transgender status. Many Hijras are like heterosexual women and have sex with men.
But I am a feminine lesbian who likes watching shemale porns and I wish to date a Hijra transsexual. Can a Hijra transwoman be lesbian? | You are no lesbian. Nice try though.
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I don't know what you are but lesbian you're not. | Hey,im 15 n i like girls a lot,but im fat n i dont think any girl wud date me,so i had sex with a guy? i watch straight,lesbian n shemale porn.i never watch gay porn......i hav only had sex once with a guy(in the ***).....but i hav given him blowjobs a few times....i dont kiss him....v both giv each other blowjobs wen v watch porn only....v only do it 2 please ourselves....v dont hold hands,hug,kiss,lick our cums,watch gay porn....v hav never done these....i luv girls,i think they r hot,i wanna **** a pussy 2...but im fat...so i get blowjobs from a guy...does this make me gay? | dont have sex with a guy just get into a study group with girls, go watch girls play volleyball who are on the volleyball team.
ask a girl that seems to be somewhat out of shape if she wants to on walks with you lead up to it at least.
That way you will have not given up on the natural order of the way things are suppose to be.
dont do gay things do girl things. no you are not gay you have just been ignorant you made a mistake | Do you think I'm transsexual or simply gay? Do you think I can change my life to a normal life? Hi,
I’m very unhappy and feeling very uncomfortable because of my own situation. I’m married since 3 years and have a 2 years old daughter. And I recognize that I can lose them… I hope that it’s ok to write very direct and open about sexual things. I believe it’s the best way to describe my situation.
With 13 years I started to masturbate. During this I was eroticised by the female body, but I was especially aroused by the imagine of having big female breasts. I don’t know why, but since then the dream of having female breasts, one or two years later the dream of having a female body and being a woman is eroticising me.
I don’t know why, but I started with around 14 years to wear female underwear and breast forms during my masturbation. It’s the big thing, that I’m not eroticised by the underwear itself. I believe that I feel a little bit more like a woman. Every time after masturbation I feel ashamed - and I masturbated since around my 14th birthday almost every day. I have to explain that I was never (!) aroused by the imagine of having sex with a woman in a “normal” male way. Every time I’m eroticized by the imagine of having a female body, especially big boobs and round hips. During the first years I watched normal sexual orientated films or pictures with woman, fantasized of being the woman on the picture or film, “normal sex” (I’m the woman…) was not very interesting for me. I was also fascinated of lesbian porn and wanted to be one of the girls. Later I was more and more fascinated of extremely big breasts and big booty girls. I think the reason is that these are extremely feminine expressions.
Later, I think I was around 16 years old, I started to masturbate myself in the anal way, during my fantasize of being penetrated by a penis. But it’s not so often and I limit it. During the first years I wasn`t directly aroused by a men itself.
Then I´ve to notice that I was very shy during my teenager time and felt in love with some girls, but a relationship never started.
With 22 years I get the possibility to go into the internet. So I began to read about my situation. I recognized, that I’m maybe a transsexual. I also started to masturbate during watching shemale porn – I fantasize since then about myself as the shemale, having sex with a man; or watching normal sex, dream about being the woman, having sex with a man. I also sometimes masturbate myself anal and dreaming about taking hormones to get a female body. I wore and wear until now female underwear, shoes and breast forms, but not during every masturbation. But after almost every masturbation I feeling ashamed. Since then I bought and thrown away my female clothes and breast forms very often.
With 26 years I met my wife. We felt in love, but the start of the relationship was not very easy, because of the sexual thing. Even during our weekly sex I fantasized about being penetrated by a penis and having breasts and a female body. Only with this picture in my brain it’s possible for me to get longer erections. But I’m not feeling very comfortable to have sex with my wife and maybe it’s possible to say that I don’t like this sex. But I love my wife (I have to notice that I’m feeling more emotionally interested in woman)! During this time period it was also possible for me to masturbate every day or every two days, because we lived in two different towns.
Later we married, our daughter was born and we live since 10/2005 in a nice flat. Since then it was not so easy to masturbate so often, sometimes I´ve done this when my wife was at home. Our sex life decreased. Now we have sex only around every 3 month and I know my wife is very unhappy about this. One year ago she surprised me during a masturbation. She cried and said she thinks that I’m maybe a gay. I said no…
I also started to get aroused by the male body itself, especially nice muscular bodies and not only big penises. So my sexual preference changed over the years: from lesbian sex to the imagine of being penetrated by a penis, later – increasing since around five years - to have oral and anal sex with a man as a shemale or a woman.
To the emotional things: Even when I don’t masturbate I want to be a woman. I want to look like a woman, have a female body. These wish increased over the years, some years ago I wanted to be a man, when I was not aroused. But I know that I’m a man and I can’t imagine that I can change my gender in a realistic way. But when I have the choose, I want to be a women and never change back.
My interest in man also increased, when I see a nice guy (for example on the beach or on TV) I’m feeling interested, maybe sometimes eroticised – two years ago it was unbelievable!
I’ve done the COGIATI Test and the SAGE Test and they telling me that I’m maybe a transsexual. But they don’t know something about my special situation. But when you read my story – what do you think? I’m transsexual or only gay?! I don’t know, do you think it might be possible to change my life and life a normal live with my family? What I can do, I know that my wife will leave me because of our “sex life”. And so I loose my family, my daughter!
Please help me!
Diana | First of all, only YOU can answer this question.
Second, talk to a gender therapist. Talking to someone face-to-face can really help you sort things out. A list of therapists can be found here:
www.DrBecky.com/therapists.html
Third, anyone who tells you that you can change, or that you can be "cured" is lying to you. Gender issues are hard to deal with because of the stigma and shame. It causes you to be confused, many go into denial and many are just too bloody scared to even deal with it.
Fourth, learn all you can about transgenderism and transsexuality. This site is chock full of info:
www.LynnConway.com
Fifth, don't put much wait on the Cogiati test. It's not really a test, it's more like a mirror and it is also easy to give answers you think they are looking for. Talk with a therapist!
Sixth, don't worry about your orientation right now. The issue of primary importance is decifering your gender identity. Once that is settled then you'll know your orientation.
Please speak with a gender therapist. | Does my wife want's somebody cock or have Sex with somebody else ? My wife cheated on me once. she is saying that the guy se ****** with, was offering a job and that's why she had sex with him. (As she says: The guy was very reach and cute, but I'm looking better, and better in sex. So when I found out, she bag me to stay because she loves me more and wants to be only with me. ) For me it was really hard to take it. because she always was saying that i'm the best and then, I guess she just wanted to try somebody's cock because she never had sex with any body before. Now I don't trust her. and I installed a program on the computer so it records all the actions, and I found out that she started watching porno again like every day for 6 days all ready. I don't tell her that I know every thing she is doing. I need an advice ..... does she wants somebody cock again or what ? She likes especially watch shemale or lesbians... Please help... I'm frustrated.... and broke.. | | Sorry my friend but there is NO justification for cheating! I'd sell candy floss at a carnival before I'd have sex with someone to get a job! Your wife has issues and I'd be packing either her bags or mine. She's playing you for a fool! Cheating is a deal breaker. | Does my wife want's somebody's cock or have Sex with somebody else ? My wife cheated on me once. she is saying that the guy se ****** with, was offering a job and that's why she had sex with him. (As she says: The guy was very reach and cute, but I'm looking better, and better in sex. So when I found out, she bag me to stay because she loves me more and wants to be only with me. ) For me it was really hard to take it. because she always was saying that i'm the best and then, I guess she just wanted to try somebody's cock because she never had sex with any body before. Now I don't trust her. and I installed a program on the computer so it records all the actions, and I found out that she started watching porno again like every day for 6 days all ready. I don't tell her that I know every thing she is doing. I need an advice ..... does she wants somebody cock again or what ? She likes especially watch shemale or lesbians... Please help... I'm frustrated.... and broke.. | Well Matt
you sound like such a winner, why in the world would she want someone elses cock? | My boyfriend of 6 years has been looking at shemale porn. I don't know what to do.? I briefly looked through some files on his computer out of curiosity and found my boyfriend had downloaded videos and images of shemale porn. Male on Shemale along with some other lesbian porn I don't really care about..There were also a lot of hidden files I couldnt access when i typed in keywords like porn, shemale, *******, etccc.. which makes me wonder what else is he hiding? could it be worse than this? Initially I was very shocked and hurt. I feel like I don't know him anymore and I cant look at him in the same way. It is driving me crazy thinking about all this. I know he loves me, but there is a huge communication problem between us and I have some intimacy issues as well. What I am beginning to pull together is that this may be a porn addiction he may have that i never knew about because we recently moved in together. And his addiction may be causing him to seek new thrills in forbidden sex. I cant deal with this. I am considering installing a keylogger to find out whats in those hidden files. Please keep in mind I could handle almost anything weird in porn fetishes and so on. But shemale porn is just something that is sooo far from what i am that yes my self esteem is at an all time low. I am not unattractive by any means and have a nice body, but all this makes me feel like I am worthless. I just want to know what else is he hiding? i am severely depressed and distraught over this. I never minded him watching porn but I never want to be with a porn addict. I feel like i need to know, then talk to him about what I found initially. Someone please help, I don't know what to do. Please id like to hear from girls and guys. | First of all, using a keylogger that way is illegal.
Second, shemale porn is FAR from the weirdest fetish. If it freaks you out so bad, maybe you better not go poking around further. | Am i gay if i accidently watch shemale porn and i am not gay? ok well PLEASE HELP ME GET THIS RIGHT i was watching straight porn for a very long time and i saw some lesbian porn, i liked it than they started using strap on's i found it hot i mean i watch porn to watch a woman not a man so its 4 boobs and not 2 boobs and yea well if your a guy you know so than i saw this shemale thing and i thought of it as like woman haveing sex with strap on's x10 like real thing but than after watching it i asked myself is it gay? but i never ejaculated to it until now... i accidently did it and i never ment to!!! now i feel bad i have never watch gay porn nor do i plan on to and i have had a few girl friends i am not attracted to men but i am to women also i dont like shemale porn when im straight just the regular thing i think i watched it because i was very horny and was kinda looking for a thrill and something new but now i am never going to watch it again because i feel very nasty about myself but yea please tell me what you think i would very much appreciate it thanks, oh and no negitive comments ...please i am already depressed | I've seen this question on ED. Funny enough, it's on the wiki page for Yahoo! Answers.
Nice try, though. |
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